7 REASONS WRITING HEALS TRAUMA
- By Corine Gatti
Tap into the power of writing to heal your soul.
Talking your feelings out is not for everyone. But more people are interested in
putting their thoughts down where they can navigate the troubling waters of the
past or of the present without shame.
Communicating your feelings through
writing is not a taboo subject anymore. According to the American Psychological
Association, Joshua Smyth, Ph.D., of Syracuse University found writing to be an
effective way for people interpret their experiences. "Venting emotions
alone--whether through writing or talking--is not enough to relieve stress, and
thereby improve health. To tap writing's healing power, people must use it to
better understand and learn from their emotions," he explained. Writing helps
frame events in our lives and can go down to the very root of the pain, which
can help us find inner freedom. Here are 7 reasons writing heals trauma.
It allows you to get real.
Even if you are seeing a therapist, you may still hold back to protect yourself
from being judged. Writing allows you to have a platform where you have the
liberty to express your soul without restraint or fear. You don't have to
pretend to be something that you're not anymore. The writing process will open
the mind and the heart to allow healing to start flowing. There is a caveat to
this, however. You need to be honest with yourself and embrace your feelings.
"Hold yourself accountable to tell yourself the truth about your behaviors, your
thoughts, your motivations and your actions. If you can't be honest with
yourself, you will not be able, to be honest with others," author Dawn Demers
wrote.
It makes you deal with the pain.
Trauma that is not dealt with can be a dangerous cycle because it's too painful.
"But, because they are painful, we do not process them deeply and and so, we
suffer the stress of remembering a painful situation without resolving the
incoherence," Psychology Today found. Writing acts as an outlet to life’s most
challenging obstacles and events that change our lives on a daily basis.
Thoughts, feelings and emotions are more fluent when they’re put down in
writing.
It helps you confront the experience.
When we write about an experience that is painful--we're constructing a personal
narrative that creates a pathway towards healing old wounds. If we don't
confront this, we will obsess over the event and what we could've done
differently. The Foundation for Art and Healing shared that expressive writing
could "possibly lead to mental health problems, expressive writing allows us to
cognitively confront, process and heal from the pain." Start writing from the
heart and express how you're feeling today. The cool thing is that there are no
rules and you have the power to construct your thoughts as needed. You can't
overcome discomfort unless you face it and brave through the pain.
It helps you discover forgiveness.
Start recording everything that is going on in relation to the trauma and how it
has impacted you. Then make a list and start to explore it and make amends.
Maybe you need to forgive someone or let an old love go. Maybe you were wronged,
treated unfairly or not supported during this time. Our response is to stuff our
anger and shut down. Forgiveness will help you avoid disorder, will protect your
well-being and “stand against the worst kind of injustice so that it does not
defeat you," author Robert Enright shared. Forgive yourself for making mistakes
and learn self-acceptance. If this is hard, seek a licensed therapist for
guidance and further direction.
It helps clear your head.
Between your emotions and your thoughts, there could be a lot of upheaval going
on in your private world. Writing will help you battle this out while keeping
negative thoughts and even depression at bay. The pain of bereavement, violence
or a sudden diagnosis of a serious illness could also drive you into isolation,
which is not helpful. "Expressive writing promotes healing and can help us to
better control our emotions, to stop ruminating or obsessing about a traumatic
event and instead derive meaning from what happened," author Lynda Monk shared.
Clear the clutter out of your head by expressing yourself on paper.
It helps you slow down.
No matter what stage you are in at the moment, writing will help you to slow
down and become more mindful. Start catching yourself when you rush through the
process. Ask yourself “Why am I rushing for?” Once you slow down, it will help
reduce stress and will help you from being controlled by thoughts and emotions.
The benefits to this are being able to cope with stress better and help you to
become more aware of toxic thoughts, which could be haunting you. The writing
process can be used to train the mind and body to embrace a more serene state.
It allows you to find hope again.
Not only can you relive your triumphant moments but you can find hope again by
listing your successes every day. By re-reading successes, it will empower and
encourage you press forward when bad days come along. "Cultivating hope requires
courage to take that first step forward," Life Hack suggested. "Take that first
step and then the next. You will soon be on the other side and ready to tackle
your next challenge." Today can be a time that you start exploring what you are
capable of again. The fact you're brave enough to pursue healing can be a start
to a renewed hope and bright future.
Writing can open up a path of deep healing and enlightenment. It's something
that you can utilize for the rest of your life. Consider it your companion to
help you to weather the storms of life.
Corine Gatti-Santillo is a freelance digital journalist, editor, and content
producer. She is also the The Christian Post Voices Editor. She is also a former
editor at Beliefnet.com.
"IT'S MY MONEY. AND I WANT
IT NOW!"
- By
Dr. Mary Edwards
A few days ago God spoke to my heart these words:
"Some of my people have monies that are 'frozen.' They are frozen
because there is something they must do to 'unfreeze' them. Thaw out
the bread."
I always like for God to confirm that what I'm hearing is from him. This is what happened shortly after I heard His Voice.
Immediately, I went to my freezer and literally took out some
frozen bread. I put a dollar bill around the bread (money wrapped
around money!) with a rubber band. That same hour I received a phone
call. One of my clients who didn't owe me money said, "I'm in your
driveway. May I come in?" Without asking why I said, "Sure." She came
in and handed me a check for $200.00." She said she wanted to be sure
she had reserved some of my time to work on her book in the near
future. Needless to say, I rejoiced!
God gave the children of Israel manna every day. Every day I
ask God for my daily bread "money." I expect to receive money every
day. And I do.
There was a time I would settle for crumbs. God told me that I
didn't ask for enough. My faith has increased. I have moved from crumbs
to a slice to a loaf. Now, I've asked God for a BAKERY. How sweet it
is! I see myself rolling in dough! Just call me a "Holy Roller in
Dough!"
Every day I say: "IT'S MY MONEY. AND I WANT IT NOW!"
REPEAT AFTER ME, "IT'S MY MONEY AND I WANT IT NOW!"
"The Scrolls Are Being Opened to the Ready Writer" - Theresa Phillips
(Given to The Called and Ready Writers as they Celebrated
their 10th Anniversary, 2009)
"My heart is
inditing a good matter: I speak of the things which I have made
touching the king: my tongue is the pen of a ready writer."—Psalm 45:1
While
driving, I saw a flash in the sky. I looked up and saw a huge cloud
shaped like a quill—I saw a perfect feather and tip...I was stunned. I
was in awe. I began to think, I wonder, what the angels are writing? I
wonder what is being written? Is a record being taken? What have I
done? So much went through my mind at that moment. That is what happens
when Holy Spirit is moving...you react.
The WORD was on my
mind. Just words. I felt a slight panic. What is it, Lord?! Lots of
thoughts flooded my mind with great anticipation, so I pressed in to
that moment with great fervor.
"Let us acknowledge the LORD; let us press on to acknowledge Him..."—Hosea 6:3
Then
I saw in the spirit, a high mountain. On the top of that mountain was a
man dressed in clothes of long ago. I gasped..he is from the Ancient of
Days! I just knew it. Who was he? He was writing on parchment paper; he
had a scroll. My heart leapt inside, and I knew something was being
released.
He, the Lord, was speaking to me, "It IS time. Time,
time, time, time...The scrolls of the ancient ones are being opened to
the ready reader...scrolls of Law, Righteousness, and His total will
and essence. Write, write, write, write!"
"When he takes the
throne of his kingdom, he is to write for himself on a scroll a copy of
this law, taken from that of the priests," (was he a priest I saw?)
"who are Levites. It is to be with him, and he is to read it all the
days of his life so that he may learn to revere the LORD his God and
follow carefully all the words of this law and these
decrees."—Deuteronomy 17:18-19
The Pens of Ready Writers are Going to Write as Never Before!
They will write:
• The words of plenty during famine.
• The words of hope during despair.
• The words of healing during mass illness.
• The words of grace during unease.
• The words of peace during battles.
• The words of love during times of hate.
Then
I knew: the writer is being released. The prophetic writer, who will
prophesy from the realms of Heaven, the word of Heaven—looking for that
great and beautiful day. Even memories of the evangelist, speaking of
that day of the coming of the Lord, will emerge...but they will be
different. They will speak of glorious encounters with GOD.
Heaven to Earth, Heaven to Earth, Heaven to Earth, I saw the quill writing across the sky.
The Quill Turned Into a Paintbrush
"And
He carried me away in the Spirit to a mountain great and high, and
showed me the Holy City, Jerusalem, coming down out of Heaven from
God."—Revelation 21:10
As I continued to pray and press in to
know HIM, to seek what He is doing, I saw the quill turn into a
paintbrush (the sky was ablaze with magnificent color) and paint
glorious star-studded skies and plush green grass and trees filled with
all the seasons of the earth, all blooming at once. The scene was
approachable and filled with light and the light became life—it was
abundant!
"The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth His handywork."—Psalm 19:1
Then
I heard again, "It's time—TIME, TIME, TIME of the creative writer;
TIME, TIME, TIME of painters of mighty words. Even in song, WRITE,
WRITE, WRITE. Be a ready writer of the GOOD NEWS! The paintbrush will
write across the heavens and declare the beauty of the Lord. Look up, O
Church! Look Up, O lost! I will call upon the gifts of the artist in
the days of darkness."
"...my tongue is the pen of a ready writer."—Psalm 45:1
Theresa Phillips
Praise Ministries International
WOMAN OF THE WIND - By Jennifer Worthy
Dedicated to Dr. Mary Darlene Edwards - On her Birthday (October 11, 2007)
Brave woman of the wind
Light and swift,
Where did you learn
To fly so gracefully like this?
Soaring like the majestic eagles
To thrilling heights unknown.
Accelerating quickly as you take off,
Amidst tumulus winds of adversity
Which carry you far above clouds
thick like homemade gravy.
Your broad wings have been strengthened
By stormy winds and currents
meant to plummet you to the Earth.
Yet, you held your ground
and ascended even higher!
You effortlessly ride on
the undercurrents of conflict
Which allow you to land
In small crevices on mountain ridges
Where you can soak in the radiant
Rays of sunlight undimmed by air pollution
Your eyes are razor sharp and capable
Of perceiving gifts afar off
Nurturing and mothering
Those who follow you
and desire to ascend to
Heavenly places like you.
You are a dauntless woman of the wind.
Thank you for
the faithful examples you give.
Wise woman of the wind,
Who hears the sound of silence
Atop the glorious mountaintops
And can carry many a burden.
Some may wonder
where did you learn
to soar like that?
But those you have touched
Know that you are mighty in God.
Copyright October 2007
"MANY BOOKS, SONGS, SCREENPLAYS AND ARTWORK THAT WERE REJECTED--WILL NOW BE RELEASED!"
Prophecy given through Bill Yount on November 14, 2007
Psalm 102:13, "Thou shalt arise and have mercy upon Zion: for the time to favor her, yea, the set time has come."
I
saw angels scavenging through trash cans, old filing cabinets and dusty
warehouses, picking up rejected manuscripts of books, songs,
screenplays and artwork, and then declaring, "THESE HAVE BEEN WRITTEN
AND CREATED AHEAD OF THEIR TIME--BUT THEIR TIME IS NOW!"
Ahead of Your Time?
Have
you written a book, a song, a screenplay or have drawn artwork and
thought that something was holding it back or thought it was seemingly
unnoticed by man? I want to encourage you--you may have had an angel
hiding what God has given you to do--keeping it for its divine timing.
You may have written or created a divine project that was not meant to
be released in your time frame, but I am sensing God's timing for many
of His overlooked creations--IS NOW!
The
waiting and the aging of these creations which seemingly brought
"death" to these dreams have only caused God's anointing to increase
greater upon them. Through man's "rejecting," God is now "injecting"
them with resurrection power!
You May Have a Best Seller!
I
saw angels checking out books and manuscripts that have lain dormant in
authors basements; and these angels are now proclaiming, "THERE'S A
'BEST SELLER' IN THAT CELLAR!"
I
saw "publishing" angels sitting on stacks of books that were written
ahead of their time, but these angels are now arising! These authors
were strongly anointed as those who were seemingly "born out of season"
and their divine projects were ahead of their time, but--their time has
now come to be published and to be heard abroad.
Going to High Places
Some
writings will ultimately end up in kings' palaces, as well as the
prisons and rescue missions of the earth, for kings sit in both places.
World leaders will find these divine writings in their laps delivered
by the hands of "dignitary" angels. Some rejected and forgotten artwork
will now be adorning the walls of government buildings and the palaces
of world leaders!
I
saw angels picking up discarded forms of divine artwork from the
storage rooms of art stores and closets. These artworks are from
original artists who have given up hopes and dreams of their artwork
which God had called them to do. These same paintings and forms of
prophetic artwork are now finding their way into the halls of justice
to hang on the walls and will prophesy into the governments of the
world. Some artwork have the address of the "Oval Office of the
President of the United States" written on them, and some are also
destined to the hallways of the White House.
Other
paintings and artwork will find their way even into Middle East palaces
to adorn their walls with justice and help break the powers of darkness
off of the minds of world leaders who assemble in these renowned
palaces in the earth. Some of the most profound artwork are coming from
the prison cells of prisoners and will be found in mansions of the
richest men in the world.
Multiple Births
Some
authors, whose difficult projects have given them great labor pains,
will discover that there is more than one dream in their womb! I sense
some novels and screenplays that have taken so long and have had great
difficulty in finishing, have God's timing in them after all. The
patient labor of these projects has only increased the size of their
destiny and having been carried full term--are now nearing God's
delivery room.
With
surprise, some authors will give birth unexpectedly to twins--a "novel"
and a "movie!" From trash cans to theater screens, from filing cabinets
to governmental cabinets, and from the warehouse to the White
House--DEAD DREAMS ARE RISING!
Bill Yount
Blowing the Shofar Ministries
Email: theshofarhasblown@juno.com
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